- My healthy son, no matter how rebellious he is acting at any given moment.
- My beautiful puppy who is the sweetest dog, even if she wakes me up at 6AM to go outside.
- My amazing job and my incredibly supportive, encouraging boss.
- My friends who keep a smile on my face and joy in my heart, even though they are often hundreds of miles away.
10/7/12
Journey: Week Twenty-Three
9/25/12
Journey: Week Twenty-Two
8/26/12
Vicious I tell you!
Today my neighbor had a few words for me about how I allow my pups to be in the lawn unleashed. They could attack his wife! They could bite him or an innocent passerby! They could get vicious in a split second!
And you know what? He's so right. I'm going to leash them every time I take them out for the well being of the residents here. I wouldn't want anybody to get injured by these ferocious beasts.
8/11/12
If three is a crowd, what is four??
6/13/12
Journey: Week Twenty-One
" The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly."
Ain't that the truth. I don't know how many times I've said "hind sight is always 20/20", and for good reason! So many times I've made rash, quick decisions without thinking it out. So many times have I come to a very harsh reality of consequence and the road of tough lessons because of just that. But, I believe that having the patience to step back and see the big picture of situations as opposed to the tunnel vision of the "here and now" comes only in time and after making plenty of mistakes.
And, I'm not sure I'd even call them mistakes. I've come to accept and realize that everything in life happens for a reason. Some situations may be more negative than others, but there is something to be learned from everything. That said, I've become a big fan of taking a step back and thoroughly thinking through my decision rather just plunging in. I think...just maybe, I'm actually becoming a responsible adult!! How did THAT happen?
5/29/12
Journey: Week Twenty
5/16/12
Welcome the Frugal Rican!
Mario works at a financial institution and has a huge passion for money. When he’s not working, hitting the gym, or spending time with his better half, he shares many tips about anything and everything money related over at http://frugalrican.com. Humorous, but practical, this blog is a great read and awesome if you’re learning how to budget, cut back, or keep money in the bank! In this day and age, I’ll take all the help I can get! Be sure to check him out (also on twitter: @frugalrican), but not before reading his guest post here at Life of Ikkins first! Enjoy.
- Tampons
- Lip Gloss
- Hair Brush
- Compact
- Wallet
- Gum
- Hand cream
As the Frugal Rican, I've had my own share of personal experiences when it comes to saving money, but I never figured that gender would be a major reason and influence when it comes to how much I could possibly save over the length of my lifetime. Out of those 7 items I listed, I currently carry only one: Hand cream.
Just kidding.
Most men carry a wallet with the basics: Cash, cards, phone numbers. That's it. There are no personal items, there are no emergency female articles, and definitely no "beauty" products to powder our noses. It's this great divide that seems to hold us back from understanding why women spend so much sometimes. It seems like being female comes at a quantifiable cost that males cannot understand and it wasn't until I WANTED to understand, that I came to actually begin to comprehend, how much more it can cost to be female. Yep, you read correctly, just your gender alone can determine how much you are going to spend and how much you are going to save.
I definitely don't worry about having a spare tampon laying around, nor having a hand cream to moisturize with, nor does having a hand brush ever come across my mind. And if you are completely curious, I scoured the internet for lists of the most common things that are found within a woman's purse (including asking Nikki) and then compiled a much more condensed version based on those lists. I was surprised and, yet, not surprised at the same time to see such a huge difference in just the common objects that women carry around that men do not.
It's a harsh world, in these economic times, so I do feel a hint of compassion with all the women that are trying to save while still trying to be feminine. It isn't easy, but at least you have one more that understands your pain. Stay frugal, ladies. Hopefully one day we'll definitely understand what you, as a gender, must go through to keep us all smiling.
5/12/12
Journey: Week Nineteen
"Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs."
Sorry I'm so late on getting this weeks post up! I've been busy with finals and some events over at Scary Mommy. I also have some really exciting news to share, but I'll announce that later this week (how's that for suspense?)!! And now on to my thought for week nineteen's theme....
AMEN.
I think that's the shortest review for this Journey so far.
In other totally unrelated news, I went to a gun range for the first time today!! I was initially pretty nervous and completely unsure of what to expect. Once I shot the first round I felt right at home though and I can't wait to go back again!
If you've ever gone shooting, let me know how your experience was in the comments!
Almost hit the bullseye! |
Headshot!!! |
4/30/12
Journey: Week Eighteen
4/26/12
Journey: Week Seventeen
4/23/12
Yep, I'm in love
4/16/12
Journey: Week Sixteen
If you're reading about my Journey the first time and are wondering what the heck I'm talking about, click here.
4/13/12
Journey: Week Fifteen
"Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only."
PJ at the park |
My first wine tasting! |
Meeting Jill! |
Spending time with my sisters Madison (7) and Dani (25) |
And I got to come home to a wonderful belated Easter dinner. This steak was so incredible, and the picture is too awesome not to post. |
4/11/12
Clerks 2
- Pillow pants. Now THAT is funny shit.
- The Lord of the Rings references/jokes. "One ring to rule them all" LOL!
- I think it’s awesome that Kevin Smith played the role of Silent Bob… “I got nothing”
- I think it’s even more awesome that a lot of the cast were friends of Kevin Smith’s from college and they all got together to do the movie.
- Rosario Dawson. Need I say more?
- Sometimes I just sat there thinking "What the F?!" but in a way that was something I really loved about this movie--there was always a twist! Kelly and the stud, anybody?
The List:
Akira
Aliens
American History XAnimal House
Best in Show
Better Off Dead
Bill & Teds Excellent Adventure
Blade Runner
Blazing Saddles
Bull Durham
Caddyshack
Daze and Confused
Deliverence
Evil Dead II
Fast Times at Ridgemont High
Ferris Bueller's Day Off
Field of Dreams*
Fletch
Ghostbusters
Glory
Goldfinger
Gremlins
Heathers
Highlander
Jaws
Lethal Weapon I
Monty Python and the Holy Grail
My Blue Heaven
Naked Gun
Pale Rider
Planes Trains, and Automobiles
Platoon
Policy Acadamy
Porkys
Predator
Primer
Pulp Fiction
Rainman
Rambo: First Blood
Raw Deal
Red Dawn
Reservoir Dogs
Robo Cop
Run Lola Run
Say Anything
Scarface
Sixteen Candles
Spaceballs
Terminator 2: Judgment Day
Terminator 3: Rise of the Machines
Terminator: Salvation
The 6th Day
The Godfather
The Golden Child
The Good the Bad and the Ugly
The Goonies
The Jerk
The Karate Kid
The Natural
The Professional
The Three Amigos
The Usual Suspects
The Warriors
Top Gun
True Lies
True romance
Unforgiven
Untouchables
Is this your first time following my Pop Culture Challenge? Read what it's all about here
4/3/12
Journey: Week Fourteen
If you're reading about my Journey the first time and are wondering what the heck I'm talking about, click here. :o)
3/26/12
Journey: Week Thirteen
Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.
"Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely."
I’m working on this. I really, really am. I’ve been learning how to embrace loneliness in a very healthy, fun way. And you know what? It sucks a lot. More than a lot. I’m often feeling unhappy or just plain sad being single, but I know that I need this time to find myself. Then and only then will I be able to enter into a relationship.
Life has recently thrown a wrench in my "master plan" (always has a way of doing that, huh?), but for the moment, I will continue to overcome loneliness and embrace contentment. It's only fair to myself and any person who I hope to be able to make happy in the future
If you're reading about my Journey the first time and are wondering what the heck I'm talking about, click here. :o)
P.S. Can I just give a huge shout out to the University of Louisville!? Made it to the Final Four AND are playing our arch rivals, the University of Kentucky wildcats. Unbelievable, way to go guys! Go cards!!
3/19/12
Journey: Week Twelve
Stop thinking you’re not ready.
"Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first."
I literally half-snarl, half-grunted when I read the title of this week’s theme. As I type this, I still haven’t read the blurb on it. Here goes nothing…..
Well, it really wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be. Recently I’ve been hearing a lot of classic clichés. Clichés that sometimes make me want to gag (even though I know it’s true), like “all great things take time”. But you know what? Internally I scream “I don’t want to wait, I want my great thing and I want it now”. The typical impatient attitude, right? Come on, you know you do it too! I refuse to believe I’m the only one who operates that way. But, I digress…
I found the blurb to be refreshingly different. Instead of the well-meant “all great things take time” being shoved down my throat, this theme said “you need to step out and take chances in life when opportunity presents itself”. And, as many of you know, I love adventure. “Stepping out” might as well be my middle name. With that said, I think it’s still safe to say I’m going to continue laying low for a while. At least until I’m done with this 30-week Journey, that is.
To all of you readers that may be playing it safe and not taking a chance on an opportunity, I hope this helped you in some way. I want to encourage you because you will never make a mistake stepping out, every situation you go into will teach you something (take this from the woman who has lived through enough experiences to last a lifetime). Who knows, that opportunity may just change your life for the better. You won't know until you grab it by the horns!
Until next week…